How To Tell a Guy You Like Him (Matthew Hussey)
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How To Tell a Guy You Like Him
OK let’s talk about it.
The infuriating phenomenon of men disappearing in the early stages of dating, even at times when things appear to be going well!
It can be so hard to know what you’re supposed to do with a person:
You play hard to get, and he doesn’t even know that you’re interested…
… so you show him you’re interested, but then he loses interest because it seems too easy.
So what’s the answer?
In this video I tell you, and I share the secret to showing your interest in such a way that he keeps coming back for more.
Oh, and if you find you’re in a continuous pattern of things fizzling out early in the dating process before they even get a real chance, stay until the end of the video for a special gift that’s going to help you with that exact issue.
Transcript provided by YouTube:
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society has taught us that if we tell
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we have lost power especially women
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women are taught from a very young age
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if you go over there and communicate
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you’re in some way being needy or
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desperate or doing the man’s job
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for him don’t do his job for him hold
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let him come to you it’s the hard to get
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that if i just hang back and do nothing
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then i’ll attract someone then i’ll keep
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my power but hard to get doesn’t give
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any power hard to get puts you at the
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of fate of the guys who are the loudest
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men in the room who decide to come up to
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it doesn’t give you choice it doesn’t
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give you agency over your love life
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true power is in deciding who you like
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but doing it the right way see when we
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go up to someone and communicate we like
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them from a place of strength it’s like
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walking up to them and saying
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hey i think you’re attractive i like you
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and then moving on with our lives the
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weak way of communicating interest
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is walking up to someone like they’re on
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looking up at them and saying i
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i’m just gonna stay here
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liking you be the train that is leaving
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not the train that has reached its
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destination as soon as somebody thinks
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you’re static that’s when they take
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that’s when they think you’ll always be
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there that’s when they stop chasing
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that’s when they start disappearing so
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that is one reason men disappear
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there are five more big reasons why men
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i have put them all in one place for you
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it’s a why he’s gone.com click the link
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download the guide i’ll see you there
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