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How To Tell a Guy You Like Him
OK let’s talk about it.
The infuriating phenomenon of men disappearing in the early stages of dating, even at times when things appear to be going well!
It can be so hard to know what you’re supposed to do with a person:
You play hard to get, and he doesn’t even know that you’re interested…
… so you show him you’re interested, but then he loses interest because it seems too easy.
So what’s the answer?
In this video I tell you, and I share the secret to showing your interest in such a way that he keeps coming back for more.
Oh, and if you find you’re in a continuous pattern of things fizzling out early in the dating process before they even get a real chance, stay until the end of the video for a special gift that’s going to help you with that exact issue.
Transcript provided by YouTube:
society has taught us that if we tell
we have lost power especially women
women are taught from a very young age
if you go over there and communicate
you’re in some way being needy or
desperate or doing the man’s job
for him don’t do his job for him hold
let him come to you it’s the hard to get
that if i just hang back and do nothing
then i’ll attract someone then i’ll keep
my power but hard to get doesn’t give
any power hard to get puts you at the
of fate of the guys who are the loudest
men in the room who decide to come up to
it doesn’t give you choice it doesn’t
give you agency over your love life
true power is in deciding who you like
but doing it the right way see when we
go up to someone and communicate we like
them from a place of strength it’s like
walking up to them and saying
hey i think you’re attractive i like you
and then moving on with our lives the
weak way of communicating interest
is walking up to someone like they’re on
looking up at them and saying i
i’m just gonna stay here
liking you be the train that is leaving
not the train that has reached its
destination as soon as somebody thinks
you’re static that’s when they take
that’s when they think you’ll always be
there that’s when they stop chasing
that’s when they start disappearing so
that is one reason men disappear
there are five more big reasons why men
i have put them all in one place for you
it’s a why he’s gone.com click the link
download the guide i’ll see you there
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